Monday, May 9, 2016

Kids do say the darndest things

Kids do say the darnedest things.  I came across an article that listed 7 things you should not say to your dance teacher.  Dance is supposed to teach children discipline in and out of the classroom.  I have found over the years that parents are not reinforcing the discipline we are trying to teach.  This article was written by the Rockettes Blog.  You can view the article here. 

Every one of these 7 things I have had a student say to me over the past few years.  I can not say it was the area I was teaching in because I have taught in several counties.  After reading through this article, I believe that number two stands out the most.  “What time is it?”. 

First of all, there is normally a clock in every classroom  While the instructor is teaching, the last thing they are thinking about is what time it is.  Normally it is how many more minutes to have to squeeze in as much material as I can.  Several of my students take classes from choreographers at conventions.  The last time I had a seven year old ask me what time it was I asked two questions. 
        Would you ever ask (insert studio owners name here) that question?  If you were at a dance convention, would you ever walk up to a choreographer while they were instructing, if they knew what time it was?

The answer to both of these was “No”.  So I finally asked, “Why are you asking me this question?”.  It was hard to keep a straight face to a seven year old but my point came across to them.  I have learned to develop a straight face when it comes to these situations because growing up, it never even crossed my mind to ask what time it was.  I wanted dance class to last another hour past the time we were released.  I guess there is a different type of passion that children have these days.

I found a post from the Dance Teacher Summit that lists “10Things Your Dance Teacher Might Not Tell You, But You Really Need To Know”.  This summarizes what we are trying to teach our students but I do not think they really do know.  I want to print this and share it with both the parents and older students.  

If parents can work with their children outside of dance class it would help with dance etiquette while class is in session.  Children can get more benefits from dance other than discipline.  Here is a cute video to check out other benefits of dance for your child.






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